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Is Healthy Separation Possible?
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Understanding CBT and TF-CBT: Tools for Healing
In the realm of mental health treatment, various approaches offer pathways to healing and growth. Two such methodologies, Cognitive...
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Therapeutic Insights: Couples Communication in Parenting--Exploring 'Fair Play' and Parenting with Love and Logic
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Apr 2, 20243 min read
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How to Navigate Thorny Topics in Your Relationship
Thorny Topics are often places where we find conflict with our partner, areas we find ourselves discussing often and can bring hurt or...
Rachel Jones
Mar 26, 20241 min read
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How do we get started with couples counseling?
The second question we get in our consultation calls is how we conduct the assessment process with couples or the more basic question is:...
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Mar 19, 20241 min read
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What is The Gottman Method?
We get this question so often during our consultation calls with couples and figured we would put it into a short video to discuss the...
Rachel Jones
Mar 12, 20241 min read
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How to Deal with Your Husbands Defensiveness
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Mar 5, 20244 min read
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"Why is my partner always defensive?"
The other day I had a friend ask me: "Why is my partner always defensive?" Have you ever found yourself in a situation where a seemingly...
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Feb 27, 20242 min read
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The Joy of Clients Graduating From Therapy
While I love working with my clients and guiding them through the goals and changes they want to make in their relationship, one of the...
Rachel Jones
Feb 20, 20241 min read
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What is Discernment Counseling?
We are switching it up with a video vlog series focused on answering the question: "What is Discernment Counseling?" Click to hear what...
Rachel Jones
Feb 13, 20241 min read
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Keys to a Lasting Love: Practical Tips for a Successful Marriage
Success in marriage is dependent on a variety of factors and a personalized definition of what it means to you. The success of your...
Rachel Jones
Feb 6, 20243 min read
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When is the right time to get married?
The decision to get married is a momentous one. But deciding when is the best time to get married is a very personalized process. While...
Rachel Jones
Jan 30, 20242 min read
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Increase your Sexual Intimacy: Tips for Getting In the Mood to Getting It On!
Sexual intimacy is an important part of our relationship health and it looks different for all of us in regards to what we need and...
Rachel Jones
Jan 9, 20242 min read
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Phrase of the Year: Main Character Energy
Every year my therapist asks me to pick a word of the year and this year I took it a step farther and created a phrase for myself. Main...
Rachel Jones
Jan 3, 20242 min read
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Embracing Healing Connections: Meet Rachel Elder, Our Compassionate Owner
In the tapestry of Connected Couples Counseling, each thread contributes to the vibrant fabric of support and understanding. Today, we...
Rachel Jones
Jan 2, 20242 min read
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Is It the Couples Therapist's Role to Save a Marriage?
In the realm of couples therapy, the question of whether it's the therapist's responsibility to save a marriage is a topic that sparks...
Rachel Jones
Dec 26, 20232 min read
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Nurturing Lasting Love: Unveiling the Difference Between Conditional and Unconditional Love
Love is a complex and beautiful emotion that forms the foundation of many relationships. As couples, understanding the nuances of love...
Rachel Jones
Dec 19, 20232 min read
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Navigating Post-Holiday Hurdles: Understanding Why Couples Seek Counseling After the Festive Season
The holiday season, often depicted as a time of joy, togetherness, and celebration, can sometimes bring unexpected challenges for...
Rachel Jones
Dec 12, 20233 min read
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12 Days of Giving the Gift of Love Challenge
"On the 12th day of Christmas, my true love gave to me..." We are giving our spin on this challenge, because if you've ever seen The...
Rachel Jones
Dec 5, 20232 min read
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Embracing Togetherness:10 Magical Ways for Couples to Enjoy the Holiday Season
The holiday season is filled with a lot of events, to-do's, and traditions. We often see couples put their relationship on a lower...
Rachel Jones
Nov 28, 20233 min read
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